The Flirt Therapist — Lizzie Laing
RTT Therapist | Flirt Coach | Dating Coach | London | Tunbridge Wells | Online

I spent years on the dating apps. Going on dates that went nowhere. Meeting the wrong men. Wondering what I was doing wrong.

So I did something about it. I had therapy. I worked on myself. I hired a flirting coach. I got off the apps and went back into the real world.

And then — a few months later — I met my husband. In real life. Calmly, confidently and without drama.

I made a promise. That when I met him I would teach people around the world how to do the same. How to get off the apps, meet men in real life and find the love they actually deserve.

That promise is why I am here. And it is why you are here too.

Welcome to The Flirt Therapist. Let us find your person. 🌹

Lizzie Laing -
Flirt Therapist

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How to work together to get you your one.

Whether you are ready to do the deep inner work, get out there and start meeting people, or both — there is a way for us to work together.

Join one of my live three month cohorts, which include an RTT hypnotherapy session and weekly group coaching. Or book a one to one flirt coaching session — as a one off or as a package of six for ongoing support throughout your dating journey.

Let's Begin.

  • Your Last First Date — Secure In Love Live Cohort

    A three month live group coaching experience designed to transform the way you date — from the inside out. We start with the inner work, removing the blocks and beliefs that have been keeping love at a distance. Then we get you out there — confident, open and ready to meet your person in real life. Off the apps. For good. Includes an RTT hypnotherapy session and weekly live coaching throughout.

  • Flirt Coaching

    Real world flirting skills taught by The Flirt Therapist herself. Whether you want one focused session or ongoing weekly support, this is practical, personal coaching that gets you out of your head and into real life — meeting people naturally, confidently and without it feeling forced. Book as a one off or as a package of six for support throughout your dating journey.